There are few things that piss me off more than some guy who knows he's totally average in every department acting like a fucking big-shot smart-arse just because he's got an average girlfriend. You know, things like saying "Are you STILL not going out with anyone?!?" with a smirk on their face and his arm around his plain, slightly podgy girlfriend, the only girl he's ever shagged.
Of course, in a way they have the right to do this. I haven't been laid in faaaaar too long. I haven't had a girlfriend in faaaaar too long. But the fact is that many of these guys are not ladies' men; they just happened to get "lucky" with some average or half-decent girl who isn't in high demand from guys anyway. In other words, if things had turned out slightly differently, they could be the one sitting here writing this blog while I could be acting like a cocky motherfucker just cos I had a 5/10 girlfriend. So fuck them.
How this relates to me
I saw my ex-friend Big D for the first time in ages recently (we didn't fall out, we simply drifted). He was with his new girlfriend. Now back at high school Big D was quite the player, though since then his luck has deteriorated. I didn't expect her to be a stunner, but I was actually taken aback at how plain she was. I've kissed or dated nicer girls than her, and I'm the first to admit my record is shoddy. The thing is, most of my mates from school/uni/work etc. have birds who are either average or ugly, with very few exceptions. I don't think any of them would be my choice. Plus, I've never seen my brother Reg with a girlfriend, whilst my other brother Bill's girlfriend is average at best, though he clearly thinks he's a studmuffin.
So ... if I pull the odd average girl at the start of my journey and your mates slag you for it, FUCK THEM!!! Who are they to judge when they are going out with some Plain Jane at best and are single and desperate at worst!?
Go out, have fun, get good, get laid. And when you do get a girl who YOU really fancy, you get her even if she's not your mates' types - one man's meat and all that jazz. Plus, none of them can slag you off, so don't even think about it.
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
Saturday, 6 June 2009
Other guys who know about The Game
Practically 100% of the guys all over the world who know anything about the PUA Community will have read The Game by Neil Strauss. Like most aspiring PUAs, I read it shortly after discovering the Community. I know it's not meant to be a step-by-step guide on how to pick up women, but it is definitely a good introduction to the PUA lifestyle, both its positive and negative aspects.
A quick look through YouTube channels and Pickup companies' websites reveals that this book has had a phenomenal affect on thousands, perhaps millions of guys' lives throughout the world. They have gone from geeks, shy guys, nice guys, mama's boys, social retards etc. into confident ladies' men. Of course, the book (along with the Community in general) has also affected many guys in a negative way, but that's another topic.
There are many more however, who have read this book, learned a bit about the Community etc. and then done fuck all about it. I'm one - hence the blog title!! However, I have a friend (for purposes of anonymity let's call him ...um ... Juan) who I know for a fact has read The Game and like me hasn't done anything about it. Juan now lives in another town but is certainly within reasonable driving distance and I go over to see him semi-regularly. He first brought up the subject a couple of years ago on a drunken night in the pub. With my social inhibitions all but obliterated by alcohol, I told him that I'd also read it and that I wanted to get into this PUA stuff. The next day, we were both a little uncomfortable about the conversation and didn't bring it up again.
Recently however, he has brought it up to me twice. The first was in a nightclub when he was talking about bitch shield to me and another mate (let's call him Woody) and it could have come straight from Tyler Durden or Neil Strauss. The second was on a stag do, when he brought up the subject explicitly (while pissed) and confided that he was too much of a shitbag to do anything about it. He clearly reads about it a lot, but won't do anything out of fear.
Will I make Juan my wingman?? Why or why not??
I have made a firm decision to stay away from the PUA Community, especially local lairs, for reasons I don't care to elaborate on just now. Juan is the type of guy who can do well socially but is often awkward and is far behind me overall. Like I said, he can also be a shitbag. I think if I start talking about all this stuff he'll geek out with PU jargon etc. and actually hold me back for the time being. In addition, I'm nowhere near competent enough to give good advice to someone yet; I should work on myself first.
Having said that, when I start to get really decent, he may well be a good wingman. A good thing is that he lives out of town, so I can travel over to his town for some fun. I could go on the pull at his place, doing the hard work and hooking him up with my girls' pals. Obviously he'll notice and ask what's happening with me etc.
Whatever you do, don't go down the "PUA" route with him. Teach him, get him decent, help him, go on the pull, but keep it "natural", not PUA-ish. You can also have fun with some of your other single mates, but as for Juan, be very careful about how you approach the issue.
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
A quick look through YouTube channels and Pickup companies' websites reveals that this book has had a phenomenal affect on thousands, perhaps millions of guys' lives throughout the world. They have gone from geeks, shy guys, nice guys, mama's boys, social retards etc. into confident ladies' men. Of course, the book (along with the Community in general) has also affected many guys in a negative way, but that's another topic.
There are many more however, who have read this book, learned a bit about the Community etc. and then done fuck all about it. I'm one - hence the blog title!! However, I have a friend (for purposes of anonymity let's call him ...um ... Juan) who I know for a fact has read The Game and like me hasn't done anything about it. Juan now lives in another town but is certainly within reasonable driving distance and I go over to see him semi-regularly. He first brought up the subject a couple of years ago on a drunken night in the pub. With my social inhibitions all but obliterated by alcohol, I told him that I'd also read it and that I wanted to get into this PUA stuff. The next day, we were both a little uncomfortable about the conversation and didn't bring it up again.
Recently however, he has brought it up to me twice. The first was in a nightclub when he was talking about bitch shield to me and another mate (let's call him Woody) and it could have come straight from Tyler Durden or Neil Strauss. The second was on a stag do, when he brought up the subject explicitly (while pissed) and confided that he was too much of a shitbag to do anything about it. He clearly reads about it a lot, but won't do anything out of fear.
Will I make Juan my wingman?? Why or why not??
I have made a firm decision to stay away from the PUA Community, especially local lairs, for reasons I don't care to elaborate on just now. Juan is the type of guy who can do well socially but is often awkward and is far behind me overall. Like I said, he can also be a shitbag. I think if I start talking about all this stuff he'll geek out with PU jargon etc. and actually hold me back for the time being. In addition, I'm nowhere near competent enough to give good advice to someone yet; I should work on myself first.
Having said that, when I start to get really decent, he may well be a good wingman. A good thing is that he lives out of town, so I can travel over to his town for some fun. I could go on the pull at his place, doing the hard work and hooking him up with my girls' pals. Obviously he'll notice and ask what's happening with me etc.
Whatever you do, don't go down the "PUA" route with him. Teach him, get him decent, help him, go on the pull, but keep it "natural", not PUA-ish. You can also have fun with some of your other single mates, but as for Juan, be very careful about how you approach the issue.
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
Learning How to Get Girls
Before truly embarking on this great journey, it's important to have a map or gameplan. It's all very well saying "I'm going to get laid X times within the next month" but if you don't know how to use your time to devote energy towards that goal, it's pretty much useless. So here is my 11 Step Plan (couldn't limit it to 10, which would have been nice) on how I'm going to get laid :)
1) Have a clear idea of what you want to achieve.
2) Make a note of your current strengths and weaknesses and think of specific steps you should take to address them.
3) Find all the material you have (don't buy any more). Dig out books, e-books, DVDs and CDs. Make a list of useful websites, blogs and forums.
4) Decide what you are going to study in depth and what you will use as backup material.
5) Make a detailed (but not TOO detailed) plan of how you will work on this stuff:
--- Things you will go through systematically (i.e. start with opening, then transition etc.)
--- Things you can fix quickly (e.g. body language)
--- Things you will continually work on (e.g. general conversation skills)
6) Go out into the field ASAP but ensure you study and practice at home every day.
7) Keep a journal of how you're doing as you're going along (hey - doing this already)!! Adopt a critical but positive approach.
8) Make up (or borrow) specific exercises to help with whatever you're working on at present. Keep a note of them and go back over them regularly.
9) As well as overall practice, make up specific missions to do. This will help motivate you, overcome anxiety/nervousness and help you break specific barriers.
10) Although you don't plan to involve yourself TOO deeply in the "Community", you can participate in forums etc. if you ahve specific questions you want answers to.
11) Every - say - month or fortnight, have an overall review of how you're doing and what you need to work on next.
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
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1) Have a clear idea of what you want to achieve.
2) Make a note of your current strengths and weaknesses and think of specific steps you should take to address them.
3) Find all the material you have (don't buy any more). Dig out books, e-books, DVDs and CDs. Make a list of useful websites, blogs and forums.
4) Decide what you are going to study in depth and what you will use as backup material.
5) Make a detailed (but not TOO detailed) plan of how you will work on this stuff:
--- Things you will go through systematically (i.e. start with opening, then transition etc.)
--- Things you can fix quickly (e.g. body language)
--- Things you will continually work on (e.g. general conversation skills)
6) Go out into the field ASAP but ensure you study and practice at home every day.
7) Keep a journal of how you're doing as you're going along (hey - doing this already)!! Adopt a critical but positive approach.
8) Make up (or borrow) specific exercises to help with whatever you're working on at present. Keep a note of them and go back over them regularly.
9) As well as overall practice, make up specific missions to do. This will help motivate you, overcome anxiety/nervousness and help you break specific barriers.
10) Although you don't plan to involve yourself TOO deeply in the "Community", you can participate in forums etc. if you ahve specific questions you want answers to.
11) Every - say - month or fortnight, have an overall review of how you're doing and what you need to work on next.
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
Goals for the next year
So that's it ... I've now been on this green earth for a whole quarter of a century. Does it feel particularly different from being 24? Not really; in fact, in comparison to a year ago when I felt a bit depressed at being undeniably in my mid-twenties, I'd say my birthday came and went and I felt pretty damn good about it. I did the usual family stuff and I've got a night out planned for next weekend.
Anyways ... here are my goals for the next 12 months of my life:
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By this time next year, I will have my love/sex/relationship/dating life sorted to the point where I'm completely happy with it. I will go out and get some experience and have fun with girls, and when the right time comes for relationship(s), I will be able to do it no problem!!
I will achieve this by doing the following:
1) I will only judge my performance and happiness by my own standards.
2) I will read and study stuff relating to this part of my life every day.
3) I will do some practice exercises and activities at home every day.
4) I will practice, practice, practice this stuff out in the real world as much as possible!
5) I will review everything I do honestly and critically, but positively, and plan next steps.
6) I will regard rejection and mistakes as a learning process, not as failure.
7) I will work very hard to do as well in my career as possible.
8) I will improve my social life by cultivating positive relationships with my family and friends as well as making new friends by relating and connecting better with everyone.
9) I will become fit and healthy.
10) I will improve my appearance and fashion sense.
One final note
Always remember that TIME is the most precious resource you have. If you lose money, you can earn it back. If you lose friends, you can repair the friendship or make new friends. But as for time ... once it's gone, it's gone.
Wasted hours can turn into wasted days, and then into weeks, months and years. Do I want to turn around on my 26th or 27th birthdays and think "Shit! I've wasted another year"??? Absolutely not. Let's get going!!
Anyways ... here are my goals for the next 12 months of my life:
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By this time next year, I will have my love/sex/relationship/dating life sorted to the point where I'm completely happy with it. I will go out and get some experience and have fun with girls, and when the right time comes for relationship(s), I will be able to do it no problem!!
I will achieve this by doing the following:
1) I will only judge my performance and happiness by my own standards.
2) I will read and study stuff relating to this part of my life every day.
3) I will do some practice exercises and activities at home every day.
4) I will practice, practice, practice this stuff out in the real world as much as possible!
5) I will review everything I do honestly and critically, but positively, and plan next steps.
6) I will regard rejection and mistakes as a learning process, not as failure.
7) I will work very hard to do as well in my career as possible.
8) I will improve my social life by cultivating positive relationships with my family and friends as well as making new friends by relating and connecting better with everyone.
9) I will become fit and healthy.
10) I will improve my appearance and fashion sense.
One final note
Always remember that TIME is the most precious resource you have. If you lose money, you can earn it back. If you lose friends, you can repair the friendship or make new friends. But as for time ... once it's gone, it's gone.
Wasted hours can turn into wasted days, and then into weeks, months and years. Do I want to turn around on my 26th or 27th birthdays and think "Shit! I've wasted another year"??? Absolutely not. Let's get going!!
Tuesday, 2 June 2009
Need more motivation? Look at this!!
Like I mentioned in my previous post, I am a massive under-achiever when it comes to getting pussy. When I look back on my years at high school and university, my part-time jobs and the social circles I've moved in, I now realise that I've had loads of missed opportunities.
Social networking sites like Facebook and Myspace can be a pain in the arse, especially if you get plastered all over the internet every time you have one too many pints. However, they can also be extremely useful for ... wait for it ... finding photos of girls that (a) you could have fucked, (b) you could have made your girlfriend, or (c) you could have fucked and then made your girlfriend. Here are just a few of my missed opportunities. There are many more:
Social networking sites like Facebook and Myspace can be a pain in the arse, especially if you get plastered all over the internet every time you have one too many pints. However, they can also be extremely useful for ... wait for it ... finding photos of girls that (a) you could have fucked, (b) you could have made your girlfriend, or (c) you could have fucked and then made your girlfriend. Here are just a few of my missed opportunities. There are many more:
Who are these girls?
No, these aren't just random girls off Myspace. They're girls who I know for a fact wanted to go out with me and/or to screw my brains out. Besides, if I was picking random girls off Myspace, I'd pick even hotter ones, although I'd say this selection ain't too shabby by most guys' standards. Some are hot, some merely pretty. Some take a good photograph, some don't. And none of them might be other guys' types, but they were all generally regarded as being hot pieces of ass by guys I know, so there!!
How do you know these girls liked you?
Because they, and more girls besides, let me know in one way or another:
Asking me out face to face;
Getting a friend to ask me out;
Sending a text message to ask me to meet up with them;
Flirting with me big style and then someone telling me they liked me;
Flirting with me big style and then someone telling me they liked me;
One of their friends says, "By the way, So-and-so likes you";
Phoning me up at home for "random chats";
Wandering through from her department at work to see me several times a shift
So why didn't you go out with any of them, especially if you liked them?
Basically, I chickened out of going out with them for many reasons, for example:
I was worried about what my friends/parents/siblings would think of them/me;
I was inexperienced and thought I wouldn't have known what to do with them;
I was nervous about attention being put on me because I was going out with an attractive girl and thought I wouldn't have been able to handle this kind of pressure;
I was nervous about attention being put on me because I was going out with an attractive girl and thought I wouldn't have been able to handle this kind of pressure;
I thought I wasn't good enough for them and they'd soon find that out if they met the "real" me;
I couldn't have a proper conversation with them, flirt etc. because as soon as I found out they liked me I'd shit myself and get all nervous!!
I couldn't have a proper conversation with them, flirt etc. because as soon as I found out they liked me I'd shit myself and get all nervous!!
Why are you putting these pictures up?
For motivation. Duh!! I could and should have screwed every one of those chicks. Now, every time I look at this post, I'll think "I'm sitting around in my boxers eating McCoys, watching Hollyoaks and wanking while I should be out getting pussy". Simple really :-)
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
Monday, 1 June 2009
My first post
Hello everyone. This is it ... my first post on any sort of blog I've created, ever. How exciting.
If anyone out there actually cares (and I'm not banking on it) my blog is called The Lazy PUA because, well, I'm a lazy motherfucking PUA. I'll be maintaining a pretty high degree of anonymity on this blog at all times, but I don't think there's any point in having a blog in the first place without some kind of background knowledge as to why I'm doing it.
I'm a pretty ordinary guy living just outside a major UK city who's just about to turn 25. And, like a hell of a lot of "ordinary" guys, I don't do anywhere near as well with the opposite sex as I'd like to. Over the years, I've had one girlfriend who was below-average in just about every department and I basically just settled for her. I've had a handful of other short-term relationships, a couple with pretty decent girls but others with girls who again I just settled for. Other than that, my experience with women amounts to occasional drunken kisses in nightclubs -- you know the sort of drunken kisses that make you a bit queasy when you see them, with tongue wrestling and arse fondling in full view of everyone -- that's the sort I'm talking about. As for getting laid ... well, let's just say that it's been so long that pretty soon I'll be an honorary virgin.
The thing is though, I am honestly one of the biggest underachievers with women that I know, and I don't say that with the slightest bit of arrogance. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm definitely an above average looking guy, better looking than most of my mates. I'm no Einstein, but I'm definitely above average in terms of intelligence. I'm no Peter Kay, but I can make people roll around in laughter. I'm also genuinely confident, generally content and secure in my own skin. People generally like me and I'd say I have above average social skills. In other words, I have a lot of very attractive qualities. Again, I must emphasise that I'm not saying this with any degree of arrogance. I'm simply looking at myself objectively and writing what I see; believe me, I've gone through periods of low self-esteem in my life, but thankfully I'm well past that.
So ... since I've just let Blogland know exactly how amazing I am in every department, you might be wondering why I have such little success with the opposite sex. The answer is simple: I am a lazy bastard.
Although I'm pretty confident these days, it wasn't always so. When I was aged 19-20, I went through a serious bout of depression caused by many things, including my inability to get a girlfriend. At my lowest point, I discovered the PUA community via Google. Now, in future posts I might write more about what I think of this movement, including its major flaws, but it was (almost literally) a lifesaver for me. I changed my attitudes, my view of the world, my self-esteem, my habits and my actions. It worked ... sort of. I started pulling the odd girl in a bar or at a party. I was able to start conversations with girls on the street, in shops, in nightclubs and on buses and get a few phone numbers. I went from borderline suicidal to contented and looking forward to the future.
And then ... I did what I always seem to do. I have many positive character traits, but like everyone else I have many negative ones. In my opinion, one of my greatest flaws is that I'll get to a certain level of proficiency in something and then settle for it. For example, if I worked a little bit harder at uni I could have got a first-class honours degree. As it turned out, I did what I had to do and no more, although luckily for me I've ended up getting a decent, reasonably well-paid job anyway. I've had a couple of periods of fitness fanaticism in my life, but then I'll get complacent, go back to the lager and Chinese takeaways and attend the gym sporadically. As I type, I'm sweating uncomfortably in the summer heat as a result of being a little out of shape. Pickup is no exception. After my initial successes a few years ago, I got into the mindset of thinking "I know what to say to a girl and how to get her interested in me because I've read Juggler/Badboy/David Deangelo etc. I'll just get pissed tonight, not bother about pulling and start next week/next month/in the new year". This is one of the most self-defeating things anyone can do, and I'm the world's worst for it. At 25 (almost) I most certainly don't feel old. Hey, I'm not 18 any more, but my philosophy is to enjoy being the age you are. I've got plenty of time to have fun with a few ladies, but I can't afford to become lazy and complacent. If I wake up when I'm 30 and realise I've wasted all the opportunities from the last few years, I'll be regretting it for the rest of my life, and I know it.
So why the blog?
I've long considered starting a diary/journal in order to track my progress as I strive towards getting good with women. However, I think putting a blog on the net (albeit a totally anonymous one) will help provide me with the motivation I need. This might end up being read by thousands, or perhaps fewer than a dozen people. Either way, when I know there are people out there who will be tracking my progress, it'll make me realise what I should be doing.
I can come on here any time, click a few links and see how I've progressed and what I've learned. And when I look at the date of my last post and realise I've done fuck all since then, it should get me going!
There are many guys out there who have incredible balls putting video diaries of themselves on the net as they strive towards becoming master PUAs. Here are two great examples:
Aaron (iamnotapua): www.youtube.com/iamnotapua
Jack Coxwell: www.youtube.com/AaactionMan
I would love to do this, as I'm sure it would motivate me further still, but unfortunately I have to remain completely anonymous. Let's just say I work in a rather "conservative" profession and it wouldn't go down well if one of my colleagues stumbled upon a video of me chatting up girls and giving post-sex feedback on YouTube.
What to expect
There are many, many, many great PUA blogs out there written by guys who are full of useful information and insight, and which are brilliant to read. I'm not guaranteeing anything like that. You might find my posts boring, repetitive and monotonous. You might disagree with almost everything I say and do. If you're a seasoned PUA, you might shake your head in disbelief at my lack of knowledge.
This is not intended to be a famous PUA blog with millions of loyal followers. It's just the story of one ordinary lazy motherfucking bastard trying to improve this area of his life. Like I said, whether my regular readership is 10 or 10,000,000, I don't care. This is a journal to inspire and motivate me primarily, but if anyone out there is influenced by it, that's great. It's a place where I can record my successes, failures, thoughts, joys and insecurities in a public yet private manner.
If you want to comment on any of my posts and give me advice, that would be very much appreciated. But if you're bored already, no hard feelings.
Looking forward to getting this started!!
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
If anyone out there actually cares (and I'm not banking on it) my blog is called The Lazy PUA because, well, I'm a lazy motherfucking PUA. I'll be maintaining a pretty high degree of anonymity on this blog at all times, but I don't think there's any point in having a blog in the first place without some kind of background knowledge as to why I'm doing it.
I'm a pretty ordinary guy living just outside a major UK city who's just about to turn 25. And, like a hell of a lot of "ordinary" guys, I don't do anywhere near as well with the opposite sex as I'd like to. Over the years, I've had one girlfriend who was below-average in just about every department and I basically just settled for her. I've had a handful of other short-term relationships, a couple with pretty decent girls but others with girls who again I just settled for. Other than that, my experience with women amounts to occasional drunken kisses in nightclubs -- you know the sort of drunken kisses that make you a bit queasy when you see them, with tongue wrestling and arse fondling in full view of everyone -- that's the sort I'm talking about. As for getting laid ... well, let's just say that it's been so long that pretty soon I'll be an honorary virgin.
The thing is though, I am honestly one of the biggest underachievers with women that I know, and I don't say that with the slightest bit of arrogance. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm definitely an above average looking guy, better looking than most of my mates. I'm no Einstein, but I'm definitely above average in terms of intelligence. I'm no Peter Kay, but I can make people roll around in laughter. I'm also genuinely confident, generally content and secure in my own skin. People generally like me and I'd say I have above average social skills. In other words, I have a lot of very attractive qualities. Again, I must emphasise that I'm not saying this with any degree of arrogance. I'm simply looking at myself objectively and writing what I see; believe me, I've gone through periods of low self-esteem in my life, but thankfully I'm well past that.
So ... since I've just let Blogland know exactly how amazing I am in every department, you might be wondering why I have such little success with the opposite sex. The answer is simple: I am a lazy bastard.
Although I'm pretty confident these days, it wasn't always so. When I was aged 19-20, I went through a serious bout of depression caused by many things, including my inability to get a girlfriend. At my lowest point, I discovered the PUA community via Google. Now, in future posts I might write more about what I think of this movement, including its major flaws, but it was (almost literally) a lifesaver for me. I changed my attitudes, my view of the world, my self-esteem, my habits and my actions. It worked ... sort of. I started pulling the odd girl in a bar or at a party. I was able to start conversations with girls on the street, in shops, in nightclubs and on buses and get a few phone numbers. I went from borderline suicidal to contented and looking forward to the future.
And then ... I did what I always seem to do. I have many positive character traits, but like everyone else I have many negative ones. In my opinion, one of my greatest flaws is that I'll get to a certain level of proficiency in something and then settle for it. For example, if I worked a little bit harder at uni I could have got a first-class honours degree. As it turned out, I did what I had to do and no more, although luckily for me I've ended up getting a decent, reasonably well-paid job anyway. I've had a couple of periods of fitness fanaticism in my life, but then I'll get complacent, go back to the lager and Chinese takeaways and attend the gym sporadically. As I type, I'm sweating uncomfortably in the summer heat as a result of being a little out of shape. Pickup is no exception. After my initial successes a few years ago, I got into the mindset of thinking "I know what to say to a girl and how to get her interested in me because I've read Juggler/Badboy/David Deangelo etc. I'll just get pissed tonight, not bother about pulling and start next week/next month/in the new year". This is one of the most self-defeating things anyone can do, and I'm the world's worst for it. At 25 (almost) I most certainly don't feel old. Hey, I'm not 18 any more, but my philosophy is to enjoy being the age you are. I've got plenty of time to have fun with a few ladies, but I can't afford to become lazy and complacent. If I wake up when I'm 30 and realise I've wasted all the opportunities from the last few years, I'll be regretting it for the rest of my life, and I know it.
So why the blog?
I've long considered starting a diary/journal in order to track my progress as I strive towards getting good with women. However, I think putting a blog on the net (albeit a totally anonymous one) will help provide me with the motivation I need. This might end up being read by thousands, or perhaps fewer than a dozen people. Either way, when I know there are people out there who will be tracking my progress, it'll make me realise what I should be doing.
I can come on here any time, click a few links and see how I've progressed and what I've learned. And when I look at the date of my last post and realise I've done fuck all since then, it should get me going!
There are many guys out there who have incredible balls putting video diaries of themselves on the net as they strive towards becoming master PUAs. Here are two great examples:
Aaron (iamnotapua): www.youtube.com/iamnotapua
Jack Coxwell: www.youtube.com/AaactionMan
I would love to do this, as I'm sure it would motivate me further still, but unfortunately I have to remain completely anonymous. Let's just say I work in a rather "conservative" profession and it wouldn't go down well if one of my colleagues stumbled upon a video of me chatting up girls and giving post-sex feedback on YouTube.
What to expect
There are many, many, many great PUA blogs out there written by guys who are full of useful information and insight, and which are brilliant to read. I'm not guaranteeing anything like that. You might find my posts boring, repetitive and monotonous. You might disagree with almost everything I say and do. If you're a seasoned PUA, you might shake your head in disbelief at my lack of knowledge.
This is not intended to be a famous PUA blog with millions of loyal followers. It's just the story of one ordinary lazy motherfucking bastard trying to improve this area of his life. Like I said, whether my regular readership is 10 or 10,000,000, I don't care. This is a journal to inspire and motivate me primarily, but if anyone out there is influenced by it, that's great. It's a place where I can record my successes, failures, thoughts, joys and insecurities in a public yet private manner.
If you want to comment on any of my posts and give me advice, that would be very much appreciated. But if you're bored already, no hard feelings.
Looking forward to getting this started!!
Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA
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