Learning How to Get Girls

Before truly embarking on this great journey, it's important to have a map or gameplan. It's all very well saying "I'm going to get laid X times within the next month" but if you don't know how to use your time to devote energy towards that goal, it's pretty much useless. So here is my 11 Step Plan (couldn't limit it to 10, which would have been nice) on how I'm going to get laid :)

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1) Have a clear idea of what you want to achieve.

2) Make a note of your current strengths and weaknesses and think of specific steps you should take to address them.

3) Find all the material you have (don't buy any more). Dig out books, e-books, DVDs and CDs. Make a list of useful websites, blogs and forums.

4) Decide what you are going to study in depth and what you will use as backup material.

5) Make a detailed (but not TOO detailed) plan of how you will work on this stuff:
--- Things you will go through systematically (i.e. start with opening, then transition etc.)
--- Things you can fix quickly (e.g. body language)
--- Things you will continually work on (e.g. general conversation skills)

6) Go out into the field ASAP but ensure you study and practice at home every day.

7) Keep a journal of how you're doing as you're going along (hey - doing this already)!! Adopt a critical but positive approach.

8) Make up (or borrow) specific exercises to help with whatever you're working on at present. Keep a note of them and go back over them regularly.

9) As well as overall practice, make up specific missions to do. This will help motivate you, overcome anxiety/nervousness and help you break specific barriers.

10) Although you don't plan to involve yourself TOO deeply in the "Community", you can participate in forums etc. if you ahve specific questions you want answers to.

11) Every - say - month or fortnight, have an overall review of how you're doing and what you need to work on next.



Jack Hunter
The Lazy PUA