Goals for the next year

So that's it ... I've now been on this green earth for a whole quarter of a century. Does it feel particularly different from being 24? Not really; in fact, in comparison to a year ago when I felt a bit depressed at being undeniably in my mid-twenties, I'd say my birthday came and went and I felt pretty damn good about it. I did the usual family stuff and I've got a night out planned for next weekend.

Anyways ... here are my goals for the next 12 months of my life:

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By this time next year, I will have my love/sex/relationship/dating life sorted to the point where I'm completely happy with it. I will go out and get some experience and have fun with girls, and when the right time comes for relationship(s), I will be able to do it no problem!!

I will achieve this by doing the following:

1) I will only judge my performance and happiness by my own standards.

2) I will read and study stuff relating to this part of my life every day.

3) I will do some practice exercises and activities at home every day.

4) I will practice, practice, practice this stuff out in the real world as much as possible!

5) I will review everything I do honestly and critically, but positively, and plan next steps.

6) I will regard rejection and mistakes as a learning process, not as failure.

7) I will work very hard to do as well in my career as possible.

8) I will improve my social life by cultivating positive relationships with my family and friends as well as making new friends by relating and connecting better with everyone.

9) I will become fit and healthy.

10) I will improve my appearance and fashion sense.


One final note
Always remember that TIME is the most precious resource you have. If you lose money, you can earn it back. If you lose friends, you can repair the friendship or make new friends. But as for time ... once it's gone, it's gone.

Wasted hours can turn into wasted days, and then into weeks, months and years. Do I want to turn around on my 26th or 27th birthdays and think "Shit! I've wasted another year"??? Absolutely not. Let's get going!!